Love Advice -to have a good relationship

 My valentine day card I made my boyfriend.

Basically draw a large heart in the middle of the card and fill it with different paper cut out heart shapes. You can sew on the heart crosses for kisses. Then add different shape/size hearts for a stylish effect.

Now on to the Love Advice to have a good relationship:

Quotes of love advice:

~It isn't about having a perfect relationship. It’s about finding someone who will be there through everything without giving up.

~Love is complicated. Every relationship is different. Do whats best for you, not what people tell you to do. You're the one that has to live with or without it.

~If you love someone, be brave enough to tell them, otherwise, be brave enough to watch them be loved by someone else.

~Be with those who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.

~Be with someone who wants you as much as you want them, love should always be equally divided between two hearts to make one whole relationship.

My sum up of what the quotes mean in my opinion:

No relationship is going to be amazing fairy tale love every moment of the time. But, finding a partner who wont give up on you when life has it's troubling moments, that is how you know they care and want to be there for you and not another factor like money.

You don't have to do what you're told to be happy by family and others but what you feel would improve the welfare of your life. One relationship might like be really lovey dovey and romantic every moment they get and another might enjoy hanging out more as friends going on adventures together.

In the begining of knowing you have a crush you got to tell them otherwise you're going to be unable to ask them out. e.g. they get another bf/gf or they move out the area far away.

To top it off you've got to find a person to date who you fell you can be 100% you with. One who compliments you and is proud of your achievements...you need to do that to who you're going out with too. Be supportive, complimentary and be there when they're sad.

Love shouldn't be about who's better or who love who the most. Equal, honest and compromising to fit both needs of the partnership. You don't want to get your way all the time. e.g. don't pick where to go out every time, or what to eat for dinner. Take it turns..

Above all be loyal and honest about your life and feelings. That's the key to being happy in a relationship.

I also find having a partner who has common interest helpful too. Gives you things to talk about.

Follow this and avoid drama.

Basically what he is saying in the quote is that shouting at someone will not help get your point across. It would only make the situation worse. However, changing the words that you use would make it much more clear to the person you are mad at or debating with. 

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Avoiding drama is all about compromise. Yes you might disagree with someone to the point they make you angry but, at times you have to agree to disagree.

If you think you are better than someone and show it then normally drama starts. It's better to be more helpful to others and not be a show off...even if you are better at sport for example or get better grades.

Insulting others wont help either. Respect others believes, actions, style/image and where they come from. You never know how hard they have life. People tend to hide a lot of themselves and past and taking the mick normally provokes argument and tension. 

Not many people do this but, trying to avoid drama you have to avoid being heavily critical about someone. 

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 Don't poke fun, criticize, insult or get angry and shout at people when you disagree/ try and get your own way. Then you are more likely to avoid a lot of drama in life. 

Even if you dislike how someone is acting you don't need to shout and get all defensive just calmly say to them not to act that way in a way that don't offend anyone. If I make sense.